I did it... I was her... I was the "Other Woman"!! I always said I would never be "her" and suddenly, without even realizing it was happening, it happened.
Having been cheated on many times in the past by my husband (we'll call him Will), I had a deep hatred for the OW!! I could never understand how an affair happened or why. In my eyes the OW was evil and conniving and a deliberate homewrecker!! Over the past 13 years of marriage, Will has cheated on me numerous times with numerous OW. Sometimes there was more than one OW at a time!! But, he always begged me to forgive him and take him back, which I did. How could I not see the pattern of an affair?! How could I not know how it would all go!? I guess I thought my affair was different... I guess I thought he (we'll call him TJ) was different... I guess I thought I was different. I thought it was real. But as it turns out, as you'll discover in this blog, it was all a lie.